A type of flirting technique that works extremely well on coffee dates is the use of Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions (SHD's). By creating conversational topics that lend themselves to this concept you are able to use seductive hypnotic descriptions which in turn allow the woman to feel and experience emotions conducive to attraction. Remember it's all about how you can make a woman feel and there's nothing else to it.
Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions work because you're using every day words that have sexual connotations attached to them. Words such as 'sensitive' and 'wet' or 'hard' and 'slippery' have innuendo associated with them. Using these words within a sentence that is constructed around a romantic topic whist speaking in a seductive tone can be a powerful seduction technique.
The trick is to get a woman to ask you a question so you can answer her question with a SDH. The easiest way to do this is to simply ask her the question you want her to ask you. If you ask a woman what her favorite flavor of ice-cream is, 99% of the time after she tells you she'll ask you the same question back. If you want a woman to ask you a particular question, just ask her first.
The way to use this technique is to talk about a subject that lends itself to the possibility of you describing how you feel or think about something using a SHD. Asking a woman about the details of her very first kiss will sound strange to her if you don't lay the proper foundations for the question first. You might start by asking her where she went to school. Then you can ask her if she remembers what grade she was in when she had her very first boyfriend. From there it becomes much easier and somewhat natural to ask her a question like, "so does that mean you remember what your very first real kiss was like...?"
By just talking about her first kiss with her is a great way to increase your connection with her. Whilst she's in your company she'll be experiencing those very same emotions and this is what will cause her to feel attraction towards you. Whether she is open to talking about her first kiss or not the question itself creates an exciting emotion within her. If she answers or not there's a very high chance of her asking you, "...well why don't you describe your first kiss for me...?
This is your chance to answer her with your perfectly rehearsed SHD. It would sound like, "...I do because it was a secret kiss...it was raining and everywhere was wet so we hid under this huge tree...I remember being surprised at how soft and warm her lips were even though we were both totally wet...the rain was actually dripping onto our faces from the leaves above as we kissed...her lips were so sensitive and I had to be so gentle with her...I never expected my first kiss to be like that...we snuck back to where we were meant to be both totally wet with a secret that was hard to keep..."
Now a lot of words in the above description can be associated with sexuality however they are not being used in that context. What gives a SHD its influence is the social innuendo that is attached to those words. When using words like these the sentences can become slightly confusing and this is what allows those suggestive words to bypass her conscious filters.
The actual tone and seductive rhythm you're using has to be very subtle and barely noticeable. The best way to achieve this is to just allow the pause in between the sentences to be just slightly longer than the usual length.
To get the most out of SHD's, only use them in very small doses. Never make a SHD any longer than the example above. On a first date such as a coffee date, you wouldn't use anymore than two SHD's in the 40 minutes you spend with her. Becoming proficient in SHD's will require you to practice answering your own questions using SHD's. Once you can naturally and easily repeat an effective SHD, simply ask women the question you require them to ask you in order for you to try a SHD. - 31857
Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions work because you're using every day words that have sexual connotations attached to them. Words such as 'sensitive' and 'wet' or 'hard' and 'slippery' have innuendo associated with them. Using these words within a sentence that is constructed around a romantic topic whist speaking in a seductive tone can be a powerful seduction technique.
The trick is to get a woman to ask you a question so you can answer her question with a SDH. The easiest way to do this is to simply ask her the question you want her to ask you. If you ask a woman what her favorite flavor of ice-cream is, 99% of the time after she tells you she'll ask you the same question back. If you want a woman to ask you a particular question, just ask her first.
The way to use this technique is to talk about a subject that lends itself to the possibility of you describing how you feel or think about something using a SHD. Asking a woman about the details of her very first kiss will sound strange to her if you don't lay the proper foundations for the question first. You might start by asking her where she went to school. Then you can ask her if she remembers what grade she was in when she had her very first boyfriend. From there it becomes much easier and somewhat natural to ask her a question like, "so does that mean you remember what your very first real kiss was like...?"
By just talking about her first kiss with her is a great way to increase your connection with her. Whilst she's in your company she'll be experiencing those very same emotions and this is what will cause her to feel attraction towards you. Whether she is open to talking about her first kiss or not the question itself creates an exciting emotion within her. If she answers or not there's a very high chance of her asking you, "...well why don't you describe your first kiss for me...?
This is your chance to answer her with your perfectly rehearsed SHD. It would sound like, "...I do because it was a secret kiss...it was raining and everywhere was wet so we hid under this huge tree...I remember being surprised at how soft and warm her lips were even though we were both totally wet...the rain was actually dripping onto our faces from the leaves above as we kissed...her lips were so sensitive and I had to be so gentle with her...I never expected my first kiss to be like that...we snuck back to where we were meant to be both totally wet with a secret that was hard to keep..."
Now a lot of words in the above description can be associated with sexuality however they are not being used in that context. What gives a SHD its influence is the social innuendo that is attached to those words. When using words like these the sentences can become slightly confusing and this is what allows those suggestive words to bypass her conscious filters.
The actual tone and seductive rhythm you're using has to be very subtle and barely noticeable. The best way to achieve this is to just allow the pause in between the sentences to be just slightly longer than the usual length.
To get the most out of SHD's, only use them in very small doses. Never make a SHD any longer than the example above. On a first date such as a coffee date, you wouldn't use anymore than two SHD's in the 40 minutes you spend with her. Becoming proficient in SHD's will require you to practice answering your own questions using SHD's. Once you can naturally and easily repeat an effective SHD, simply ask women the question you require them to ask you in order for you to try a SHD. - 31857
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