Learn How To Become An Alpha Male And Change Your Game For Good

By Steve Stephen

Becoming an alpha male is most guys dream. This is because the alpha male take the lead, while the rest follow. The alpha male usually has what it takes to date and marry any woman of his choice, and can get most people eating off his hands.

Going from a beta male to an alpha male is a mindset shift. I hear people say that becoming an alpha male requires being rich, handsome, tall, speaking fluently or in a certain way, etc. These qualities are all good, but they are not required for you to become an alpha male. If you have been living your chances to luck, or struggling in the background, becoming an alpha male who the ladies are drawn to and other guys envy can start from now if you decide. One thing I have to tell you is: you have to appreciate and be good enough for yourself before others will appreciate you and perceive you as good enough for them. You have to accept the fact that no woman or situation is out of your league.

To be an alpha male, you have to have hard-core confidence in yourself. This may sound like a lot of work, but it is just adopting the right mindset (self hypnosis can help you here). An alpha male makes everyone they come across especially women see that he is sure of himself and knows what he wants in all he does. He takes control of every situation in a calm and calculated manner, and never ever shows anxiety. He takes the lead and makes decisions for his women, he never asks women questions that suggest he is not sure of what's appropriate. Even when he feels it is right to let the woman decide, he lets her know that he is permitting her to do so because he feels that she will give a better judgement in that given setting. This shows a woman that she is with a man who is confidently sure of himself, but is also reasonable enough to acknowledge her strengths.

Alpha males always use cocky humors around women. One thing most men don't know is that women just like men are thrill seekers, but because of societal expectation of what a woman should be, try to be reserved about it. Face it, we all want great sex at the end of the day. If you are always suppressing that lion in you when you are with women, you will be boring because they will perceive you as trying to play women's game. However, you should not be salacious either, get your balance of lines right and let your body language with calmness and confidence do the job for you. Don't forget having her laughing or smiling all the way should be your goal. What women really want is a guy who is sensitive to their feelings but at the same time has that bad boy edge, which they find challenging and thrilling.

Insensitivity is commonly attributed to alpha males, but that is not usually the case. Many alpha males are very helpful, caring and compromising when need be. Those ones are the ideal alpha males because they have what it takes to date and marry any woman they want and still keep the relationship alive and sizzling all the way through. - 31857

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